I Ching Explorations - Part 60 of 64
Professor: Limitation
(restriction) is represented by the image of water over the lake. It is formed from the trigrams K’an (The
Abysmal, Water) over Tui (The Joyous, Lake).
P: Or perhaps a waterfall
dropping into a pool.
S: Or a stream emptying into a pond?
P: Sure. And we needn’t be literal about the
imagery. We can think of the lake as something with a fixed
capacity. And when the flow in exceeds the capacity...?
S: It’ll overflow unless some
other condition like evaporation, seepage, or consumption balances the amount
going in.
P: The point being that there
is a limit or restriction to the amount of water that can flow in as defined by
the capacity of the vessel.
S: That makes me think of the
classic story of the Zen master overfilling the teacup to illustrate that there
is a limit to what can be taught because the student's mind is full of
preconceptions.
P: Right. The vessel, in
that case the student’s capacity to
acquire knowledge, is limited while the knowledge to be gained (the water) is
not. This hexagram addresses the idea of "keeping or containing
something within a specified area." (AH) Similarly, this hexagram
encompasses limits on behavior. The element of water is shapeless and
formless but when it flows into the space defined as a lake, it achieves form
and identity. Similarly, without water there is no lake, just a
depression. Water gives the lake an identity and the lake gives the water
form.
S: And in relation to human
behavior?
P: When a person does things
to excess – say drinking, partying, and other hedonistic pleasures, limits are
ignored. The longer that continues, like any obsession or addiction, the
more painful can be the consequences – physically, emotionally, or
socially. One’s funds are
exhausted, one contracts STDs, the liver is shot, and the mortgage isn’t paid – he
or she is homeless on the street.
S: That’s a pretty extreme scenario,
but I get the point. Laws and morals give shape to human behavior – they
define the boundaries of right and wrong, as defined by society. I drive
on this side of the road, you drive on that side, and everyone stays
safe. Unchecked love and emotion may lead to destructive hedonism while
restricted and focused expressions lead to a healthy family and community.
P: Similarly, when one
blithely proceeds from one day to the next without establishing a budget or
other limit for expenditures consistent with income, there is a greater likelihood
that a time of want and suffering will follow.
S: I understand self-imposed
limits like that and I recognize that society places limits on behavior for the
good of everyone too, but what about how we deal with naturally-imposed limits
like a finite lifespan, the laws of physics, or the inability to know what your
loved one is thinking?
P: Confucius offers this commentary:
When Heaven and
Earth regulate their restriction,
Then the four
seasons complete their functions.
When restriction
is put into regulation,
Then resources
will not be exhausted
And people will
not be hurt. (AH)
Physically, we must accept the
constraints of naturally-imposed limits.
Mentally we can reach beyond such boundaries although we’re still limited
to that which we can imagine, dream, or otherwise envision. In the physical realm though, we can apply the
lesson of limitation and restriction to help structure our lives and achieve
productive outcomes.
S: What about fairness in the
application of limits? Not everyone plays by the same rules. We
hear about people who think they’re above the law.
P: Unfair limitations will
provoke resistance which is clearly not a sustainable situation. Tax laws
in the U.S. are an example. Why not have everyone pay an equal
percentage? Why make the laws so obfuscating that average people have
difficulty determining their obligations and rich people are able to work the
system to avoid the limitations imposed on the rest? The I Ching advises
that when conditions proceed beyond their extremes, we enter a different
condition entirely, one of Dispersing as we’ll discuss next time in #59.
S: So how do we know when
limitations are good and fair? Is it one size fits all or do we each need
to define our own personal limits?
P: Each person is responsible
for establishing limits on his or her
behavior and acting accordingly. Society imposes limits that are
hopefully developed through an enlightened and benign process. Extreme restrictions can be oppressive and
painful. Limits that are too loose engender chaos. Ideally, an harmonious balance that is right for the conditions at hand is achieved.
Doing so requires wisdom. Without limits as defined by law, duty, or
morality we lack structure. Without the structure defined by these
limitations, our energies will be Dispersed.